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Consider the questions above, then use the following guideline to make your gift-giving
a success:
a success:
- If you're tempted to buy a youngster war toys, check first with the parents. Some
people have very strong feelings on the subject.
- Never give children pets unless you have cleared it with the parents beforehand.
- Joke gifts may get a laugh at the moment of giving, but can leave a sour
aftertaste.
- The value of a gift is enhanced by the fact that it arrives on time and is nicely
wrapped.
- Handwritten notes should accompany gifts. If you must include a greeting card,
add a written note to whatever printed sentiment the card contains.
- A gift of money can be most conveniently given in the form of a check or
cashier's check. Cash is more appropriate for a child. When giving cash, include
a note mentioning the amount in case some is lost or mislaid and to help the
recipient when it comes time to send a thank-you letter. Your note can say
something like “I hope these ten dollars will fund your victory pizza after the
game.”
- Generally, money is a gift given by older people to younger people. It's a good
idea to try to learn if the recipient is saving for something special and to include
a note saying the gift is to bring the person closer to that goal.
Gift-Giving Etiquette
Here are 10 questions to ask yourself when giving a gift:
Here are 10 questions to ask yourself when giving a gift:
- Why am I giving it?
- Is it sincere?
- Am I giving it without strings attached?
- Does it reflect the receiver's taste—not mine?
- Is it too extravagant?
- Is it kind? (Beware of gag gifts.)
- Is it appropriate? (No candy for a dieter.)
- Can I present it in person?
- Is it presented beautifully?
- Do I feel good about giving it?